Mayonnaise Jar and Coffee
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a
day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and
empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the
jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas
between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
course, the sand filled up every thing else.

He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a
unanimous "yes".

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty
space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now", said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
important things, your family, your children, your health, your friends and
your favorite passion things that if everything else was lost and only they
remained, your life would still be full."

"The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house,
your car. The sand is every thing else, the small stuff."

"If you put the sand into the jar first", he continued, "There is no room
for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend
all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for
the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are
critical to your happiness.

Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your
partner out to dinner. Play another 18 holes. There will always be time
to clean the house, and fix the disposal.

Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set you
priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented.

The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked", he said. "It just goes to
show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room
for a cup of coffee with people SPECIAL to you ."